Diversity, dialogue and multiculturalism in America

Eid Mubarak henna

My hands and Emma's feet

We celebrated our first Eid al-Adha in Memphis today.  Like last year, this year’s Eid brought a (mostly) unexpected blessing in the form of America’s coolest nomads. There was henna, laughter, henna, food, henna, fasting and, of course, henna.  I’ve been so busy, in fact, that I’ve asked my dear friend (and fellow Muslimah) Kate to post an Eid post here.  She’s a rare jewel of the Internet and an incredible writer.  It’s my honor to have her here.  Thank you, my sister.

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Today is Eid Al Adha and I can’t think of a better place to share the very first moment of my journey in Islam because, as it says at the top of this page, we all come from somewhere.  This moment is where I come from, in so very many ways.

I got off the bus on a cool morning at the Jean Talon market in Montreal’s little Italy.  I was alone shopping and wandering on a weekend because at 22 I had time to wander.

An unassuming tin roofed brick building stood on the outskirts of the market; inside it was a glorious palace with mountains of fruits and vegetables, teeming with the diverse colors of Canada’s cultural ‘salad.’

The people matched the produce. Bright dashikis and plantains, blue jeans and plums, stilettos and apricots, red leather and even redder tomatoes, saris and spindling long beans, salwar kameez, ginger root, niqab, tube tops, hijabs, dreadlocks, kippahs and kufis.

And me, a blond dance team captain from Iowa with a backpack and tennis shoes. We blended together, all of us doing a Saturday morning ballet and thinking nothing of our otherwise unlikely proximity and shared rhythm.

The strong and speedy employees spoke a mixture of French and Arabic and seemed to all be brothers. They hoisted boxes, weighed produce in hanging scales and yelled animatedly to one another.

Somewhere between the tomatoes, the lemons and the action, I heard music.

But it wasn’t music. It was just a voice.

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, la Illaha il Allah.

An unexpected call to something larger in the middle of life unfolding in her daily glory.

People who know ‘what I am’ ask me all the time why I’ve chosen such an unlikely path.  This is the truest answer:

A need to answer to something larger in the middle of life unfolding in her daily glory.

It’s as simple and as complicated as that.

Eid Mubarak.

May we all make more sacrifices and give more charity, and may our Hajj be accepted wherever our journey begins and no matter how unexpectedly it leads us.

This morning in particular, we’ll be praying alongside Keith Ellison and Brother Ali (or at least at their regular mosque).

What’s. Up.

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About Kate

Kate is a Minneapolis-based freelance writer and a globally aware parent raising dynamic children in a plural world. She writes about family and the beauty of the mundane, with a focus on the shared aspects of life that unify us. Find her at home at Perpetually Nesting and for a conversation on Twitter.

If you’re interested in offering your unique perspective of a specific practice, celebration or idea that contributes to North American diversity, I’d love to have you do a guest post here.  Please e-mail me at faiqa@native-born.com

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8 Responses to Perspective: Eid Mubarak 2011

  1. Nanna says:

    Ah. Eid Mubarak. How beautiful. :)

  2. Kate says:

    thank YOU, Faiqa. Because of you and your voice I’m less concerned about how I’m perceived, and more concerned about being true to who I am. All my love to you and the Reints family. How perfect to spend Eid with your best friends in life.

  3. Lisa says:

    I am loving these perspectives posts!

    Eid Mubarak

  4. Vikki says:

    Beautiful post. And now I know something more about you than your virus count ;)

    • Kate says:

      I wrote this for Native Born because I know Faiqa’s readers are welcoming, inclusive and generally supportive and non-judgemental. This is not something I talk about a lot because it’s really hard for a lot of people to understand. Being a Buddhist is cool these days. Being Christian is the majority. Even Julia Roberts is practicing Hinduism.

      But Islam? Cat Stephens can’t even make it cool. I have lost a lot of friends and have been asked a lot of ignorant questions. I could write a whole book about trying to convey my identity (which is generally the same pre- and post- conversion but to most people it seems completely altered)…

      Vicki- I’m glad you learned something about me. And I’m so lucky that Faiqa’s words paved the way for my own. xo.

  5. Megan says:

    Eid Mubarak to you and yours, Kate and Faiqa. Many blessings to you all.

  6. tariq says:

    thanks for the wonderful post Kate. Eid Mubarak to you and your family.

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