In a house not so far from this one, right over that hill, a peculiar little daisy lived in a small, but tidy garden.
This peculiar little daisy, whose name was Upsy, lived in a bed of roses.
The flowers to her right and to the left and even behind her had dark, tough stalks [...]
In a house not so far from this one, right over that hill, a peculiar little daisy lived in a small, but tidy garden.
This peculiar little daisy, whose name was Upsy, lived in a bed of roses.
The flowers to her right and to the left and even behind her had dark, tough stalks and velvety petals. Petals of red, pink, yellow and even some pretty oranges enveloped Upsy’s life.
These were the kind of colors that made you think of love, passion, and heartache.
Upsy, on the other hand, had a soft stem and bright white cottony petals that would bend and shiver when the wind blew too hard. If you were to look at Upsy, you would only feel what most people feel when they look at a daisy: very happy.
And because she was a daisy, Upsy was very happy. Mostly.
You see, since most daisies live in fields or gardens surrounded by other daisies, they are always thinking happy daisy thoughts and living happy daisy lives. And because of this, most daisies never think the thoughts that Upsy thought. But Upsy was special because she was a lone daisy in a bed of roses.
Sometimes, when the day waned, and the pinks, reds and oranges of the roses blended with the colors of the evening sun, Upsy would notice the white of her petals, the brightness of her face and the green of her stem.
She would wonder why she was different than all the flowers she had ever known.
She would wonder why the sky was blue and why the grass was green.
She would look at the House where The People lived and wonder what was inside.
She wondered quite a bit while the roses slept and since the roses never seemed to care about any of these things, Upsy would feel a little lonely when she wondered. Yet wonder she did.
Still, Upsy was loved.
The roses around Upsy would whisper softly to her, We love you Upsy, you are our special daisy, we are so happy to have you here. This made Upsy feel happy and special. In fact, she felt happier than most daisies ever feel because feeling special can make you very happy.
But many of you know that even feeling special will not make a daisy stop wondering when roses are asleep.
One day, Upsy heard a voice, “Since it’s my tea party,” a tinkling voice said, “I want to make the flower arrangement.”
Upsy was excited. She knew this pretty dark eyed girl, she was one of The People. If this girl took her into the House, Upsy might find out about what was inside, what made the grass green, or even why the sky was blue.
With all the might that any daisy has ever mustered, Upsy leaned forward eagerly, towards what she hoped would be answers and to what she knew was sure to be an adventure.
What are you doing, some of the roses whispered excitedly. Don’t lean forward so much, she’ll pick you.
I want her to pick me. I want to go, Upsy chirped.
Some of the roses were angry and thought Upsy was being silly. Others thought that this must be some strange thing that daisies do and just watched.
Ignoring them all, Upsy leaned as much as she could. And it worked. The little girl’s dark eyes fell right on her.
“This one. Only this one” She said gently.
“Are you sure you want just the daisy,” the older woman asked, “it doesn’t really match the table setting, and I’m not sure it will fill the vase…”
“Yes, I’m sure,” her voice stated resolutely as she clasped Upsy’s stem and tugged gently.
Then, Upsy felt the most curious thing happen.
Some of the roses who were angry with Upsy for wanting to leave clawed with their thorns in an attempt to keep her with them, Why aren’t you staying, they said, why don’t you like us?
But the ones who really loved her, the ones who wanted her to be happy more than anything, pushed her some more and they whispered, We never wondered about those things because maybe they are simply the things that daisies wonder about, but go and find your answers … we trust you… we love you…
Those words made Upsy feel brave, so she pushed away from the ground as hard as she could.
Upsy quickly told the angry roses that she did like them, more than that she loved them, but she wanted to know, she needed to know why the sky was blue, why the grass was green and what exactly was inside that house.
Some of the angry roses stopped pulling and said they understood, others just gave up and a stubborn few continued to pull.
But by that time, any pulling was simply too late, for even if Upsy had wanted to stay, she had already leaned forward towards the girl and the girl had already chosen her.
So, Upsy, clasped tightly in the hands of a pretty little dark eyed girl bounced away from her bed of roses towards new adventures and maybe even some answers. And while she felt a little sad for the home she left behind, she knew that this felt right, too.
She felt happy and proud.
Proud because when her chance came, she had leaned forward.
Eagerly.
It’s within the domain of those that are older, I think, to shake their head at the young. To cluck tongues at their inexperience, their lack of wisdom, and their complete disregard for good taste and decorum.
I am young, make no mistake. Nevertheless, as my years increase, I catch myself clucking and sighing at [...]
It’s within the domain of those that are older, I think, to shake their head at the young. To cluck tongues at their inexperience, their lack of wisdom, and their complete disregard for good taste and decorum.
I am young, make no mistake. Nevertheless, as my years increase, I catch myself clucking and sighing at those that are younger more and more.
Just the other day, for example, I was driving in my car all alone, listening to the radio at a volume too loud to be considered remotely appropriate and only as a mother who stays at home full time can do when she feels the absolute freedom to drive very fast and curse very loudly at idiot drivers.
I felt free. I felt young. And then, I heard it.
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
I wanna hold em’ like they do in Texas Plays
Fold em’ let em’ hit me raise it baby stay with me (I love it)
Luck and intuition play the cards with Spades to start
And after he’s been hooked I’ll play the one that’s on his heart
(Poker Face, Lady Gaga)
Are you kidding me? These are lyrics. I clucked my tongue. I shook my head. Kids today.
I actually thought that. Kids today.
Obviously, for that brief moment I forgot that there was a time when I actually paid real American dollars for a cassette in which a young white suburban kid calling himself “Vanilla Ice” boasted about the false street cred he possessed while rollin’ in his 5.0.
Oh, hypocrisy, thou art a bitter pill.
The truth is that it’s the bane of each new generation to have to endure the narrow judgment of the preceding generations when it comes to music. In my day, the older ones say, music was better. It meant something. Nowadays, they say, it’s all just… well, crap.
Actually, it’s not. Music, specifically popular music, has always been the poetry of the young. The fact that the previous generations refuse to understand or cannot understand it speaks more about the ebbing of the poetry within us as we age than it does of the taste of those that are younger.
Additionally, it seems to me that there’s an unwritten rule that if something sells and if it is popular, that it can’t be real, true or poetic. That is just… well, crap.
For centuries, poetry has been a distraction.
For those that could not read, they would sit and listen to recitation. For those who could, they would sit in a comfortable chair and pore over the words of someone who was not quite great at the time, but was destined to be someday.
Us modern humans, we have a plethora of distractions. Glowing boxes recite their version of the truth, comfortable chairs face those boxes and we find comfort and escape from the perils of goods acquisition in those hours spent. Yet, we still need our poetry. Because, inside each of us, there is a poet.
Sometimes, it’s a bad poet with not very good taste. But, a poet nonetheless.
Pop music is the modern human’s poetry. Delivered to us on the radio or via an mp3 player, it communicates the simple truths that we already know and take for granted in clever and refreshing ways. It takes us back to a simpler time or moves us forward to a more hopeful future. Or it simply distracts us long enough to help us realize that whatever we needed distracting from in the first place may not be so bad after all.
I remember my poetry and the sighs of the older generation that would punctuate each meaningful and wonderfully deep stanza of it.
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Do you remember when we used to dance
And incidence arose from circumstance
One thing lead to another we were young
And we would scream together songs unsung
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The cities a flood
And our love turns to rust
We’re beaten and blown by the wind
Trampled into dust
***
All the vampires walkin’ through the valley
Move west down Ventura Boulevard
And all the bad boys are standing in the shadows
All the good girls are home with broken hearts
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With that in mind, it becomes a little easier for me to ease up on the likes of Lady Gaga and those crazy kids who are jamming to it.
Do people even say jamming anymore?
P.S. If you’re into deep and meaningful discussions about pop music, you really need to stop by my friend Shane’s Blog. I’ve been reading it for a while and enjoy it quite a bit. It sort of inspired this post.
P.P.S. Major props to the folks at home who can guess the wielders of the mighty pens who penned these phrases I offered in this post. Or at least the guys that sang them.
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