Sometimes, you have to stand back and let people and countries take care of themselves.
I don’t think allowing a person or a nation to heal themselves is paramount to apathy or weakness.
A delayed or non-existent intervention is not just a matter of self preservation for the United States.
It’s also a matter of [...]
Sometimes, you have to stand back and let people and countries take care of themselves.
I don’t think allowing a person or a nation to heal themselves is paramount to apathy or weakness.
A delayed or non-existent intervention is not just a matter of self preservation for the United States.
It’s also a matter of mutual respect. In some ways, not interfering illustrates that we have faith in the people of Iran to sort their own matters out in the manner of their choosing… in the way that they think is best for them. Why should we shield them from the trials by fire that a people must endure in order to appreciate truly their right to self rule and governance?
These are a people that have endured thousands of years. I believe they can work this out.
The United States, as a nation, should afford them that dignity. And, of course, fervently hope that their hopes and ours converge in ways that minimizes despair, destruction and chaos. As the situation changes, we can always reevaluate.
But history, especially with regards to this nation, teaches us that our interventions in their affairs have not always been noble and that they have little reason to trust our government’s motives. Even a good choice that may be made as a direct result of our intervention would most likely be questioned to the point of being ineffective.
Watching, in my opinion, is the right thing to do at this moment.
But, it doesn’t mean we don’t see.
I see. I feel for them. I’m sure we all do. And we should let them know.
And, I’m proud of them. Well, some of them, anyway. Obviously not the ones who are acting like petulant children who refuse to share their toys. And who shoot people who disagree with them.
Additionally? I think we should all stop calling New Jersey the Garden State and start referring to it as Bon Jovi Land.
Remember? I’m having a baby. A bullet post for your reading pleasure.
It hit me (again) the other day that I’m having a boy. Obvious differences aside, I’ve started evaluating what that’s going to mean on a more general level, not just in terms of how he will act. But, also, in terms of how [...]
Remember? I’m having a baby. A bullet post for your reading pleasure.
- It hit me (again) the other day that I’m having a boy. Obvious differences aside, I’ve started evaluating what that’s going to mean on a more general level, not just in terms of how he will act. But, also, in terms of how it will change the kind of mother I am. I’m wondering how many of the changes will be fair, and how many of them will be prompted by pure sexism.
- I am nowhere near as prepared for this baby’s arrival as I was for N. I still have to wash and fold clothes. Assemble a crib. Buy a few things. Pack a hospital bag. Arrange the room where he will sleep. And you’d think that this laundry list of items would create a sense of urgency. But, no. It simply makes me want to take a nap.
- Braxton Hicks. Also known as false labor? Also known as, “Oh, great, as if it’s not going to be enough to actually have to go through the real thing. Let’s practice for what seems like fifty times a day.”
- My SIL’s baby shower is in four weeks at my place. Is it wrong that my only goal right now is not to have this baby before then?
- I feel huge. I can’t get up without grunting. And, yes, I know I’m pregnant and blah, blah, blah. But, I’ve always held this irrational belief that when you start to have to grunt when you get up, it’s the same as saying goodbye to the last vestiges of your youth.
- I keep waking up every two to three hours. And I can’t get to sleep. The fact that my body seems to be undergoing preparation for the fact that I won’t be getting a full night sleep for the next several months is fairly miraculous. And extremely annoying.
- And, like last time, in classic NYCWD and LeSombre style, this last bullet is for the next person that says, “Oh, just five weeks? That’s right around the corner, isn’t it?”
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